While I admit that a larger person does not bother me in the least I DO have a problem when the clothing aspect gets thrown in. What a thinner person can wear is not the same as what a larger person can wear. I have an issue with larger people squeezing themselves into something meant for someone my size and they end up rippling and rolling through every seam and square inch of stretchy fabric.

While I encourage being comfortable with you body doing things like that makes ME uncomfortable with your body. If I look longer than a glance I am staring and said obese person becomes offended and yet you dress in clothes, that on a thinner person, would be attractive and are, by nature, designed to draw the eye to the body beneath. If your first reaction is hostility or obnoxious behavior perhaps you need to look at yourself as to WHY you are reacting in that manner to someone looking at you. You dressed that way, after all. In this case was sauce if for gander is not really for the goose too (in a manner of speaking).